Parents only use time-outs. 2. Parents designate the child is not enough time-outs 3. Parents expect that during a timeout kid will behave quietly. 4.
Parents use a timeout as a deterrent or punishment. Applying time-outs properly, you gain control of their children. They again returned the check to his impulse, namely: to follow your leadership and cooperate. If you just give your child time-outs, not using all other methods of positive parenting, the effectiveness of own time outs will inevitably decline. Time outs should be used as a last resort or in those moments when you do not have time to consistently make the previous four steps of positive parenting. To achieve cooperation, it is equally necessary, all five steps of positive parenting.
If a kid just laughs and ignores your needs, so you do not control. Sometimes parents come to the conclusion that the timeout does not work because the next day a kid again out of control. These parents think if the use of time-outs of their child should do to stop struggling and are always willing to cooperate. Timeout does not break the will of the child and does not make him humble. It strengthens the will of the child, and awakens his desire cooperate. Some parents simply misunderstand the purpose of time-outs. They believe that the child must sit quietly and relax. Timeout is needed is for the kid that he felt and let the negative emotions – and these parents are convinced the child .Taym-out provides results precisely because the child has the opportunity to resist.